I decided to create a list of some of the songs I tend to use over and over in my hospice music therapy work. Hospice clients account for about half of my work hours, and I have about 10-14 active clients at any given time. The location of the private practice I work for is in a fairly small town in Iowa, and I travel often to other small towns in nearby counties. This may account for the preferences of my clients, and I’m hoping that many of you will have other songs to add to this list. In fact, you can create your own “Top 6” in the comments section! It would be nice for everyone to see what is working for other people in other locations. Thanks!
This is a rather old hymn, and I have used it in many ways. Several families have requested it and sang along while their family members may be unresponsive. The familiarity of the song and the spiritual comfort it provides to some can change the tone of a tense or emotionally difficult environment. In one on one settings, I’ve found that humming the melody with simple guitar accompaniment can be effective in reducing anxiety.
This is definitely an oldie, but it is one of my “go-to’s” when a client can’t think of a song to request or when I’m working with someone born in the 1910’s or 1920’s. It has been my experience that they can almost always sing along to this one. Caution: this lilting love song is ultra-catchy, and has the ability to get stuck in your head for days.
Another classic hymn that seems to be known by members of almost every Christian denomination. This is a must for your hospice tool bag.
I picked this one up from one of my internship supervisors, Kim Hawkins. It’s great because of the imagery in it, which can serve as substance for discussion, reminiscence, or lyric analysis. It is also an easy song to use for a fill-in-the-blank songwriting intervention, in which a client inserts the things that he or she loves.
Another old hymn that tends to get requested quite often. The Alan Jackson version in the iTunes link is actually pretty good. Check it out!
In a tweet the other day, I noted that I almost made it a week without singing this song. Well, it didn’t happen. It’s great for facilitating interaction between spouses, and it’s a song that many of my patients with dementia can still sing along with. I guess it is just one of those melodies that doesn’t go away.
This is a VERY short list, and I’m sure you have many songs to recommend. I would love to know what you are playing as a hospice music therapist!